How To Suck A Huge Cock

Dear LargeInLife,

Truth be told, I really don't have much of a story.  40 something, I myself have given some good head in the oh so long ago past... 14 years is too long for a girl to go without oral! I'm a spitter not a swallower, I'll take as much as I can in my mouth, maybe swallow once or twice just to keep it from dribbling down my chin, after that I'm reaching for the trash can...was told by a boyfriend once, that I was the best job he'd ever had - right up until I spit in the trash can...I'm not shy about it!

I finally found someone just looking for a sexual outlet.  And so glad i did! As to the girth of my new found lover, in his attempt to discourage me, he likened it to a red bull can but I refuse to be dissuaded!  Besides, I've been told that when i really want something in my mouth, I'll unhinge my jaw, like a snake to take it in!

Based on all I've shared, I'm sure you can understand my impatience during our first encounter, regardless of my body being ready for it all!  That pretty much sums it up, besides all the gushy girlie stuff & all the wonderful things he has had to say to me about my smile, friendliness, kissing abilities, hot body. My plan for our next meeting is to meet his friend face to face so to speak, maybe come away from the encounter with a pair of amazing DSL… if you've any great advice for fellatio on a long thick tool, I'm all ears!  Also, i plan to share your site with him, i really enjoyed the cunnilingus video last night, maybe he'll learn a thing or two to add to his own repertoire!

Thanks again for all the free practical advice, more women should be reading this, instead of crying like little pussies that they can't handle thier man...I'll take 9 over 6.5 every day of the week!

-a very happy girl

Wow... What a lucky guy, I applaude your willingness to learn and seek out advice, this man is certainly in for a treat - and after have him send you my way ;) - After receiving this email I decided to recruit the help of a friend of mine… She’s not your average girl, I'd describe her as the oraly-obsessed-big-dick-lover-slash-connoisseur-naughty-girl-next-door…

 I reached out to her and told her your story, and here is her advice, straight from the well endowed female sexpert herself, I present my extremely sexy friend… McKenzie

(My attempt at being an epic cartoonist... Truth be told this really does look like her)

I've always had an oral fixation. It pre-dates the moment my lips touched a cock for the first time, by far; It came in the form of straw chewing, nail-biting, sucking on my bottom lip..... but when my lips finally wrapped around a nice, thick cock I knew immediately that they had found their real purpose, to bring absolute pleasure to well-endowed men.

Many women hate this part of a sexual encounter and I've never understood why. So without going on a tangent, I just want to quickly address the advantages of being able to give great head. Ladies (& gents), men do love a submissive women but giving oral is the best of the both world! Essentially, you're in control of his pleasure and sexual experience... but you're submitting to what he ultimately wants. It's a weapon, pull it out of the holster and boom, he'll be blown away. If a man see's that you're excited to do this for him, I can almost guarantee that he will be one, shocked and two, far more willing to drop down on his knees and reciprocate.

So, you may be saying, "Great. I'm willing. I'm ready. Now, how do I go about doing this?" Good question. I've got a couple of pointers that should be helpful. There's no over-all formula for giving fantastic head to a big cock but in my own personal experience there's a couple of key things that all larger men enjoy. I'm no porn-star. And no, you can't google my name and find an instructional video for your viewing pleasure (my next venture maybe?) but I do know for a damn fact, that every large dick I've had the pleasure of blowing has confessed one of a few things, "I've never cum so fast!" or "That was the best head I've ever had." or my personal favorite confession after he had a mind-blowing orgasm, "I think you sucked me stupid.." Hopefully my advice can get these same reactions for you!

First off, kissing is very crucial to oral. What? Yes. Kissing. The moment I kiss a guy, really long and deep for the first time, I start to get a general idea of what he can or can't do with his tongue. You also get familiar with their mouth and they with yours... things like, does he have a long tongue? Is it wide? Is he forceful? Is he tender?.. run thru my mind.. and for a fact, it runs thru your male counterpart. So, once you're comfortable with each other, and you're past the initial first few kisses where you're feeling each others styles out... and you've found a comfortable rhythm with one another... start showing off what you can do girl. Pull away gingerly mid-kiss and take his bottom lip in your mouth, a nice seductive tug with your teeth on his bottom lip is very effective. Softly pull it into your mouth, and give it a nice suck. This shows confidence that you can take control and are willing to be playful with your mouth. While your kissing, one of my personal favorite things to do, is it take his tongue into your mouth and suck on it. I've felt responses from this alone.. a nice hard, cock growing up against my thigh or in my lap. I assure you, doing things like this gets his mind wandering.. "Where else would that soft sucking feel amazing?"

So now you've shown off (just a bit) and you've got him aroused, and thoroughly interested in what you have to offer. His imagination is running wild. He's primed and ready to go.

I know, if this is first time giving oral to a larger dick, you're nervous. What if I can't get my mouth around all of it? (and chances are you won't, this takes time, practice, and a couple willing dicks) What if my teeth hit him? What if I get tired? Don't show these emotions, not for anything. Hide those emotions underneath how fucking sexy you are. Do things that you're comfortable with doing in the beginning. If you don't want to say a word, don't. I think the best head is given when you're in a completely submissive position, i.e. on your knees and he's sitting or standing. This way you're comfortable and not hunched over and your neck/arm won't get tired because you can always grip his thighs or rest them in his lap. Alright, so you're in position, you've dropped down in between his legs and he's sitting in a chair or on the bed. That big hard cock is in front of you ready to be pleased. I can't stress how visual men are. Keep the damn lights on. I know, I know. A lot of women hate this. They don't want to be seen. Girl, grab your balls. Show him how sexy and SEXUAL you are. Show him you aren't scared to be confident in what you're doing, and that you want him to see every second of this phenomenal pleasure that he's got the privilege of getting. If this makes you extremely uncomfortable, have dim-lightning, maybe candles or a  soft lamp. I'd say this is probably the most important part.

Now to a few nitty, gritty technique tips:

If this is your first big dick, you NEED to get familiar with his dick. Is it long? Is it thick? Is it both? Is the head huge? Is the middle of the shaft bigger than the head of his cock? Look at it, feel it with your hand, use your tongue, feel its texture. So, you don't want to be obvious that you're trying to get a feel for him? Don't worry he won't care. It'll appear like you're just prepping him for the final presentation. Take your tongue, if you have a longue tongue, stick it out as far as you come, start from the base of his cock and lick up the whole length of it... if your tongue is wide (mine is) i like to show him that my tongue can cover a lot of the girth of his cock, maybe go slowly over the tip of his dick with it. You can show off with a long tongue, doing the same thing by flicking the head of his cock as you reach it... with the tip of your tongue. Get your hand wet, because a dry hand feels awful (just like on your clitoris), you can do this a couple of ways. If you want to be dirty and you're willing to be provocative, wad a big amount of spit into your mouth and spit it directly into your palm. Make it as obvious as you want, remember he's watching. If you're more timid, wad some spit up into your mouth and seductively lick your hand, coating it completely. Remember, you're getting familiar with his shape so that when it goes into your mouth, you know exactly what to expect. Slowly start to rub your wet hand over his shaft, make sure it's coated in your spit, this will help ease your mouth over it... a natural lube.

You're at the point now you're comfortable you know what you're working. You should be thinking, "Okay, the head of his dick is really big.. right away I'm going to have to take a lot." or maybe, "The middle of his cock is a lot thicker than the head of his penis, so I know that once i get mid way down, I may gag." You don't want to be surprised and you won't, because you're prepared.

Two things while giving oral to a bigger guy to remember:

1. If it's too much, it's too much, dial it down a notch. This isn't a porno. Most hung guys complain that females don't even -try- to give them head because it's too much of a "job" or that it lasts a few minutes and she's done or better yet, she doesn't like doing it, so how can I get off? If you do as much as you can do comfortably, he's going to love your effort and enthusiasm.

2. I cannot emphasize this enough.... -suck- his dick. Don't find yourself just running your mouth up and down his dick trying to fit as much of it in your throat as you can. This is all and fun and games in doses. Gagging feels great on his cock because your throat is tightening up on him BUT... how comfortable are you going to be doing this repeatedly? Not very... well, you're not there yet. Fit as much as you can in your mouth, and grip the rest of him with your hand, even if it's just to keep his dick steady in your lips. You should listen to his body and find that natural rhythm that you can do, and that he can get off to. Keep your mouth soaked in spit. I've never once met a guy who didn't love a sloppy blow job. Suck the shit out of his dick without over working the head of his cock. This is the most sensitive part on his cock and you don't want to over focus your energy. Most men don't enjoy this because it can get really tender, like when a guy is over vigorous with your clit. More so, you don't want him to cum right away... this is supposed to be an experience.. not a rush to orgasm.

Use your tongue as much as you can while still sucking. I like to keep my lips tight around him, sucking as hard as he likes or as soft as he likes, while still moving up and down. I've found that instead of going straight up and down... sort of rotating your mouth/neck in pattern with your hand.. is very, very well liked.  For instance, say you're going down, when you start to move back up on his shaft, turn your mouth to the left or right while you suck upwards. He's going to respond to everything you try with either no reaction or some sign that he likes it. If he seems to be shy himself and doesn't seem to be responding with much... ask him. Pop his dick out of your mouth and depending how aggressive you are sexually, you could ask:

"Do you like that?"  -  "Are you liking this?"  -  "I love sucking your cock."

or my personal favorite...

Just all together stop and wait for that puppy-dog look or look of shock....

"Why did you stop?... Please don't stop?"

Then clearly you know, you're getting the job done.

Well, the rest is in your hands (and mouths).

I hope this truly helps! I know it took me time to be comfortable with my sexuality and men to help me along the way and show me the ropes. You'll get there. Half of the battle is the willingness to learn.

After reading this, and thinking about McKenzie's amazing talents, I believe its only suitable to pay tribute to her by posting this.. saying thank you... and then stroking myself off voraciously to the thought of her going down on me ;)