#textsfromgirlfriend

I'm dating the sexiest woman I've ever seen, and not only is she hot, but I've helped her uncover the nasty sexual freak that was lying dormant in her... I started making these in photoshop today as I was going through old texts conversations and they were just too good not to share...

I could spend all day making these and reliving each and every one of these texts...

Indulging Your Partner, Indulging Yourself

I've been in dysfunctional relationships where you scream and fight and then have wild passionate make up sex, where the power goes back and forth, and its fun for a little while... But that's not sustainable, its exhausting, and to be honest, you're both missing out.

In my experience, the best sexual relationships come from the best relationships. And the best relationships have solid foundations, a proper courtship, a clean slate, honesty, and openness. The best relationships are the ones where you develop respect for each other, and you are a team, a partnership. 

For the guys out there who want a better sex life, the first piece of advice I would give you is to be comfortable and confident with your sexuality. Let yourself be sexual, and be comfortable with that feeling. You can be sexual, without being a perv. 

A woman needs to feel comfortable with her man to open up to him sexually. This is true gentleman. 

Allow her to feel comfortable with her own desires, ask her what she likes, and talk about it. Engage her about her fantasies, and let her know that it turns you on when she opens up to you, let her know that she can feel safe to open up to you sexually, and that what happens between you two, will stay between you two.

Protect your relationship from outsiders. Nosy, and insecure friends and family members can sneak in and ruin the magic of a beautiful relationship. Sometimes people are unhappy with their own lives, and might ask questions about your relationship - and they might seem to be concerned, and care for you - but their motives are unpure, let them in as much as you feel comfortable, but keep your guard up...  Understand that outside forces can put distance between you and your partner. 

A beautiful relationship requires regular maintenance. You expect your car to run perfectly for 100,000 miles without ever changing the oil? Nope! Relationships are no different. Keep your issues and your frustrations near the surface, don't bury them deep down, then tell your partner what your concerns are in a gentle way, and do it on a regular basis. Talk about them, and then make little adjustments here and there.

Listen to each other with care, and then think about what they said, and how they may feel. Put yourself in their shoes.

Remember what I said about being a team with your lover, and having a partnership. This is important. The attitude should be about giving your best self to each other, and giving your best effort for each other as well.

The relationship needs to come first. When you argue with your partner, it shouldn't be about who won the fight, it shouldn't be if I won or lost, or if she won or lost.... No. It should be about whether the relationship won, or lost. 

Indulge your partner, help them feel comfortable, and then teach them to ask for what they want, then learn how to give it to them. And do it in an unselfish way. Do it with love.

When you work on these issues, your relationship will build, and your sexual relationship will follow suit.

This post might seem a little like a rambling.. but there are good nuggets in this post.

Last Night's Blowjob

This blog is a place for me to share sex advice for couples with a well-endowed man... It's also a place where I share sexy things, because they turn me on, and maybe they will turn you on too (and the idea of turning you on, is very sexy to me as well).. Today I have another story, a story from last week, I wrote it the morning after it happened though but posting it today, I hope you enjoy it... I know I'll come back to this story over time, and masturbate as I relive my own experiences...

Last night was an epic night or oral experiences... We both love going down on each other, and hadn't had the opportunity to do it in a week or two (we've had sex many times, but there is a specific mood we like to be in when we decide to take our time, and really give one another a real treat) So I went first, we were making out furiously in bed, and I was fingering her pussy, which after a few minutes was dripping wet, we kept this up for a while, the make out sesh, and the fingering, and after savoring that for a while... I went down first, and gave my girl an amazing orgasm with my tongue on her fresh-out-of-the-shower shaven sweet soft delicate little pussy... The kind of pussy you just want to rub your face on its sooo soft (and I did) she was dripping wet and had that sticky taste you only get when a woman is very very very turned on... we then took a few minutes for her to wiggle around in my arms, and savor her orgasm...
Then it was my turn... she started slowly "oohing" and "aahing" at my size (I'll admit, I was VERY hard, and big last night) she was slurping and suckling on the head of my dick very loudly, which I love, so I told her "mmm baby, I love when you slurp on my dick like that" so she kept doing it, and did it even more enthusiastically which was fucking amazing... I love hearing the sounds as her head bobs up and down on me as I'm getting warmed up and really getting into the blowjob... She kept pausing, to pull her mouth off of my cock, to remind me of how much she loves sucking my huge dick, and how big I was... (this girl just knows how to drive me wild, and knows that I adore compliments and praise like that)... she kept sucking me, with one hand stroking, until I was at full mast, then I felt her lick my dick all over, just letting a mouthful of saliva coat my entire dick, she was lubing me up for something, when she crept her other hand down near the base, and started my favorite thing... the two hand blowjob... the twist and stroke and suck and moan.... my dick was covered in her saliva as her little hands firmly built up my orgasm and my cock got harder and harder and fuller and time stood still in those moments...

I was in sheer pleasure, without any other thoughts in my head.. the room is dimly lit and I can see her long hair bobbing up and down as her elbows are bowed out to the sides resting on my hips as she strokes away at me, while her mouth is simply glued to the head of my cock... gradually I began to lose control, my hips starting bucking, and she struggled to keep her mouth and hands on my cock, and then gently said "I'm about to cummmmm, do you want it baby??" and she started moaning with my cock in her mouth "mmmm-hhhmmmmm..." and I officially lost control, I came hard. So hard, I could feel my dick not just cumming, but shooting load after load, streams of my cum went straight into her mouth as she swallowed it all like a good girl...

She sat up, took a deep breath, and curled up in my arms and we held eachother... She mentioned to me that earlier, as I was going down on her, that she was holding in her orgasm, and then a thought popped into her head, and she lost control and couldn't contain it anymore, and just started cumming uncontrollably... I asked her what the thought was that pushed her over the edge and she replied

"I started thinking about sucking you, and stroking you with both hands, then I started fantasizing about you cumming in my mouth.."

I was in disbelief, that was one of the hottest things I had ever heard...


We then whispered "I love you" to each other over and over as we fell asleep in each others arms.

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