#teamstroke - An Erotic & True Story

I’ve masturbated to this memory so many times, I figured it was time I write it down… Enjoy.

I didn’t mind that her full breasts didn’t fit her petite frame, at barely over five feet tall, sex often hurt for her. Experiencing a big dick like mine was a first for her, and I was still learning how to handle my size. We were 19 – both young and inexperienced – I had over 100 lbs on her and was well over a foot taller than she. I’m built like a linebacker, she’s built like a ballerina.

Our attraction was magnetic.

What started as a late night turned into an early morning. Sex was causing her pain, then a migraine hit, then she had to stop. She turned to her side and from under the blanket she said “I’m sorry baby” and went to sleep… Understandingly I said, “it’s ok sweetheart, don’t even worry about it”…

But I was hard.

A big morning wood, a redwood, stiff and resilient, stretched the fabric of my sheets, my skin seemed to stretch, I was engorged, taught, and beginning to feel strains of discomfort ache in my balls.

I couldn’t help it. My cock throbbed, bounced almost, as it slapped my stomach.

I had to give in and find some release.

Not to disturb my girlfriend, I silently squeezed a few drops of lube into my hand, and slowly creeped my hand down, down the sheet, under the blanket, between my legs, and began to gently and softly stroke myself…

I felt dirty, I felt adrenaline rush, I was secretly jerking off next to my sleeping girlfriend. I had never masturbated in front of anyone, and I was trying to be quiet.

But the bed was small, and I took up most of it. I pumped, slowly, I was stiff as steel.

I knew that there was no way to hide what I was doing, but I thought I could.

I felt her stir, my heart froze.

I held my breath as she slowly turned back towards me..  She looked me in the eye and then slowly began to pull the covers off, she watched as my cock spring out, the only thing she said was,

“I want to watch you.”

I was completely shocked, and turned on by the idea. I went with it.

I reached for some extra drops of lube, and began to stroke myself gently…

She curled up next to me, and got right up against me, she started whispering in my ear

"I never liked watching guys do this, but watching you, your dick’s so big, so impressive… I like it "

so she nuzzled up next to me close, and was cooing in my ear as I pumped away…

She knew how to turn me on, and I was now loving it. My dick was so hard, I was enjoying feeling my own length up and down.

I must have been close to nine inches that morning.

Next thing I know I feel her reach across my chest. She grabbed the lube from the nightstand.

She squirted a few drops into her hand, then began to help stroke me.

I couldn’t believe how much this was turning me on.

I was slowly stroking the bottom half of my cock, and she was stroking the top half. I set the pace, and she followed suit, keeping up in tune with my speed.

The feeling of my rough manly hand, firm pressure, along with her delicate feminine touch, and silky smooth skin on her hand combined with the visual stimulation of watching her and I both stroke myself off at the same time was almost too much for me..

She kept whispering in my ear, commenting on how much she loved my big dick.. She knew I liked that, and she was just as obsessed as I was…we stroked and pulled together, faster now.

She talked right into my ear, her warm breath tingling my senses she said “I know how close you are, I feel it coming, I want you to explode baby”

Her words pushed me right over the edge, I felt dizzy, my heart was beating fast, my balls tensed and tightened as I felt the moment coming, my hips soon began to buck and gyrate.

Her eyes were glued to my cock.

My eyes were glued to my cock.

I was so aroused by the sight of our two hands stroking me - a wave hit me - my release began.

We both struggled to keep our hands attached to me, stroking in unison as my body arched and then sticky loads of cum began to shoot out from my long morning wood.

Each round of cum pulsed like thunder through my shaft as it made its way up, up, shooting through the air, splattering us both. Warm streams of cum was showering my skin and hers, hitting my sheets, my pillows and my wall.

I continued to stroke through the orgasm.

Her little hand kept pace with my big hand as we pumped the cum out.

We were both panting. We were both covered in my cum. Our sticky hands found eachothers, our fingers intertwined and I wrapped her up in my arms. As we fell asleep she whispered to me

“When we wake up, you’re making me pancakes, and then even if it hurts me, I’m going to take you, I’m going to take you again and again, until it doesn’t hurt anymore.”

She Hurts And I Don't Cum

I just received a message on LPSG that I thought I could write a quick response to on here.

Okay, so I wouldn't consider myself well endowed or anything but a good size. With my gf it doesn't matter how gentle i am how much lube, foreplay, anything. It always hurts her. She is telling me that sex with me just hurts. It feels good but is painful. So we only have sex for 10 mins maybe 15 at a time. And i almost never get off. What should i do?

I know EXACTLY what you are talking about. One of my first girlfriends was the exact same story.

First off, you should probably know that even though you don't consider yourself "big" I can tell that you're definitely selling yourself short. Be proud of who you are, and understand that having a footlong dick doesn't make someone big, it makes them a freak. I can tell from the problems you're having that you're definitely "big". Secondly, penis size is a relative thing, how "big' feel depends on the woman you're with, and her state of arousal. So from here on out, I'm operating under the assumption that you are "BIG" and you should too.

This is a good opportunity to bring back up two articles I have written in the past. I want to address your question and I think these posts will help.


First off read the following: It's Just Too Big...


This is a step-by-step piece on how to have sex when you have a big dick, its practical and its to the point.

It's possible to make it enjoyable, and mutually "beneficial" so to speak. I also have an article I wrote that should hopefully address your issue about not cumming.

Lasting Too Long

Read those and check back in with me. Let me know how else I can help.

Don't Be Such A Big Dick

I’m disappointed in the well-endowed who think that having a big dick gives you an excuse to be arrogant men, and arrogant lovers.

 

I stumbled upon the “Sex Tips” area of TheFrisky today and found Rachel Kramer Bussel’s 2009 piece about her particularly negative sexual experiences with the overly well-endowed men she’s experienced. The article – entitled “Dealbreaker: Mr. Too Big” – goes into detail about a few particular hung dudes and how bad the experiences were for her. Then she gets to a point that particularly resonated with me:

“In general, it seems like men who are overly endowed make for the more arrogant lovers.”

This is sad and frustrating for me to read, I’ve read it by a variety of women on many different articles, and I’ve heard this in person from close female friends.

It’s sad, because whether it’s actually true or not, it doesn’t really matter, because this is the perception that we – the well-endowed community – have created for ourselves. This also frustrates me a great deal, because I believe that this is a case of a few bad apples ruining it for the rest of us.

Having a large penis is a blessing, yes we all know there are downsides as well, but there’s a reason we say “He’s Blessed” when a man is well-endowed. If you have a big dick and you know what you’re doing, sex can be a beautiful thing and while many people may refuse to believe it, it’s possible to please a woman in ways that are simply impossible for the other guys.

But guys, having a big dick does not make you god. Having a big dick does not mean you should be lazy in bed, and most importantly having a big dick does not give you an excuse to be an arrogant asshole like Larry Hardin who wrote “The 5 BestCompliments My Dick Has Ever Gotten”.

• Sidebar: Now I'm not saying you shouldn't have a fulfilling sex life that you are proud of. I'm also not saying that there isn't a time and a place to relish in your own sexual conquests. I mean, I admit I have this blog, and I've posted photos of myself on it, and I just wrote a whole article/erotic story about the best blowjob of my life, but this is my place to express myself sexually. And let's not forget that the primary purpose of this blog is to help well-endowed couples have more mutually beneficial sex. I've learned a lot over the years and I wish I would have known what I do now when I was a teenager and lost my virginity. Maybe that erotic story was more for my own benefit, but I'm ok with that, it turned me on to write it, and it turns me on to read it. I didn't write it to brag about my big dick, in fact, no one I know knows about this blog, and I intend to keep my identity a secret. So be proud of who you are, I'm just saying don't be an asshole about it.

Having a big dick means that you need to have a higher sexual IQ than the other guys, it means you need to know what the hell you’re doing because the bigger you are, the higher the chances that you’ll cause a woman to tear, bleed, cry, etc. Still don’t believe me? Do a little research and you’ll find an endless list of articles and personal experiences by women who were traumatized by a bad experience with a big dick.

And by the way, causing a woman to tear, bleed, or cry is NOT a badge of honor. It does NOT make you cool. The guys who actually buy into that shit are destined to be reincarnated with a micro-penis.

Having a big dick means you have a responsibility to know when and how to be gentle and patient with her. Having a big dick means that sometimes you will probably cause a woman pain and discomfort. I don’t need to go into the pros of having a big dick because I’m not here to stroke your massive veiny ego’s today, this is an article to tell you to get your shit together and be a man.

So please, to all of my well-endowed readers, be confident, not cocky, and do us all a favor and let’s remind the world that not ALL of us are arrogant lovers.

Best Blowjob Of My Life - An Erotic & True Story

This is a TRUE story. Started as a post in the 'Best Blowjob Stories' thread on LPSG, then I got so into it I decided to carry it into a full blown story. Please let me know what you think in the comments...

I was dating this girl, this might sound weird, but she had a mouth that was designed for blowjobs. Easily handled big size, full lips, would drool & create so much saliva that my entire crotch would be soaked. I was the first guy she ever gave head to, she was an instant natural, but needed a little encouragement, by the end of our four year relationship she could have been an instructor to the porn stars.

She was 5'7", long legs, thin, athletic with the most perfect skin I've ever seen on a woman. Her skin was perfectly smooth, soft, no freckles, no blemishes, just model-worthy perfection, she had long flowing light brown hair that came half way down her back, relatively straight with light curls, she had a great petite round & tight butt, & years of being a swimmer kept her body tight & athletic, yet she had full big breasts, unusually big for a swimmer body, a overflowing 34C sometimes 34D bra size & the most sensitive nipples I've ever sucked on. Her lips, her nipples, & her pussy were smooth & perfectly pink. & on top of it she had one of those "can do" attitudes where she just wanted to please...

She gave amazing head, but wasn't into the idea of swallowing cum, or letting me cum in her mouth. She knew this bothered me as we were really open about sex, & we had talked about how much more that added to the my pleasure of the experience, yet she was still resistant.

Our relationship ended about a month later, & this is the story of one of the last blowjobs I ever received from her..

So I was just exhausted. You know where you are just beat. I was passed out in bed, she got home from working a really late night around 1 in the morning. The next thing I know I hear the door open & in my sleepy state I'm semi aware of the fact that she got home & then I drift back to a deep sleep.

I was still half asleep & wasn't aware of what was happening, but I could then feel the pressure of her body climbing on top of me, I realized that she was now completely naked as the warm skin of her young body crawling up on top of me from my feet, inching her way up to my crotch. I feel her long hair tickle my legs, & tease my stomach area, & I feel her hard nipples grazing my thighs, gently swaying from side to side as her hands reach inside of my boxers & pull them down.

She gently spreads my legs wide & positions herself low in front of me as the blood slowly begins to circulate & migrate south towards my crotch.

In a quasi sleepy/dreamy state I feel her warm, wet dripping mouth slowly ease down on me, her lips tightly wrap around the head of my awakening cock & with a swirl of her tongue, the warm warm saliva engulfs the head of my cock & I can instantly feel myself start to grow, as I slowly begin to wake up & drift gently out of my sleepy daze. I remember thinking to myself, "how can her mouth be this wet?"

I keep my phone on my nightst&, & somehow had the wherewithal to quickly turn it on, & press record of a voice note... (Sooo glad I did) She knew I recorded some of our sessions & sometimes we would listen to them together, like on a lazy sunday morning in bed, & slowly masturbate together to the sounds of us fucking.

As I was becoming more conscious I lifted my head up & started to say "mmm thank you, I love thi.." she interrupted me with a whisper, "shhhh, don't say a word baby, I just want to focus on the pleasure
I'm about to give you", her hands roamed around my cock, petite slender fingers tracing the length from the underside then twirling around the tip, she purred in a low voice "you're not even all the way hard & you have the biggest cock baby" she let out a moan so deep it sounded like a soft growl as she dipped her head lower & continued to pleasure me.

It was pitch black in the bedroom, I was in ecstasy. I took a deep breath, looked down, realized that I could only see the faint outline of her head bobbing up and down so I closed my eyes, concentrating with my other senses to feel what she was doing to me. As my sensitivity began to increase, I could feel how soft her lips were, the gentle breaths she took, slowing she paused from sucking to exhale, & as she did more & more drops & strands of saliva & drool covered my cock, as her hand formed a tight grip she quickly pumped my length working that saliva over every inch of me.

In between sucks & slurps she said to me "Do you like this?"
"Mmm-hmmm, you're soo good" I responded..
To which she whispered, "I know... I'm a good dicksucker"

She knows I like it slow & sensual, but she likes to fellate me hard & fast, so as she starts slow, she begins to enjoy herself more & more, & begins to go faster & faster, taking me deeper & deeper, she gags, then lets all of the new saliva pour out of her mouth as she slows to let her lips slowly & sensually move around my member.

My entire cock was soaked in her saliva, full & throbbing with pent-up pressure, I'm sure the head of my cock was a swollen purple by now, & as much as I was enjoying this I could tell she was enjoying it just as much. Something about the end of our relationship coming closer the sex became hotter & hotter. She was on a mission to make a lasting memory for me.

She moaned & purred as she sucked on me, & my eyes still closed in the darkness I was 100% focused on every sensation. I spoke out & said "oh shit baby, this is the best.." & before I could finish my sentance, she interrupted me again, this time not with her words, no, this time she stuck the middle two fingers of her right hand straight in my mouth. As she did this I could instantly taste the juices of her pussy, she had been fingering herself the whole time. She lifted her lips, cleared her mouth of the load of saliva & drool by spitting all over my cock again

her: "How big is your dick?"
me: "You should know, you measured it baby"
her: "I know, I just want to hear you say it"
me: "You measured me at eight & a half inches"
her: "mhmmm... I love how big you are baby, & I think I can get you bigger tonight"

She wrapped her lips tightly around the head of my cock, & started to apply full suction, then "pop" her mouth off of me as she moaned. The wetness & the "popping" of her mouth with all of the suction & the vibrations of her moaning were sending me into places of pleasure I didn't think were possible. That combined with the things she was saying to me, she was not only stimulating my cock physically, but she was stimulating my mind & the fact that I was still in a dreamy/sleepy/state made me feel like I was flying high in blowjob heaven.

Something had gotten into her tonight, she had never been more uninhibited, & sensual before. She slowed, & let her tongue slide up & down my shaft, flicking from side to side, & gently withdrawing. Then she pressed on, her mouth moved faster, sucking in my cock & then sliding it out, taking a bit more in her mouth with each thrust. I gently placed my hands on her head, & dug my fingers into the curls of her hair so I could feel the movement as she long-stroked my cock, slurping & moaning, as she kept sliding me in & out of her mouth. I could feel the top of her mouth bump against the head of my cock, & for a second she made gagging noises. But then it was over, & she managed to take more of me into her.

We both had the rhythm down. The tease was tantalizing. Back & forth, I was in control, she was in control, she alternated & changed from slow to fast, gentle to harsh, one moment it felt like she was worshiping my cock, softly pleasing & respectfully kissing & licking like a succulent lollipop, the next moment it felt like she owned my dick & wanted to see how dirty she could be, she was controlling my every sensation, & the next moment I grabbed her head & pressed her down on my cock as hard as I could, gagging her, choking her, feeling her squirm, then pour out a new mouthful of saliva all over me, then she relaxed to the sensation & I could push down her throat even deeper, I held it there then let her come back up for air... At that moment I eased back & let her dominate me with her mouth again.

She was like a frantic dick sucking hurricane one moment, & the next she was a graceful blowjob ballerina, a sensual darling, allowing her tongue to dance all over my swollen cock, gently lapping up the precum mixed with the juices of her hungry mouth.

She is paying attention, & she is detail oriented. She focuses in on the speed, & the suction, & the amount of saliva, because she wants it all. She knows I'm a heavy cummer. Tonight she doesn't just want me to cum, she wants me to explode like a volcano erupting, & she's focused on the slow build, because she knows she'll get more cum this way, by now 20 minutes has passed & she knows we're nearing the finish line, but while I didn't know it yet she was still yet to blow my mind.

Faster & faster she goes, I rest my hands back on her head again & she shakes me off as her mouth continues to devour my cock, wanting my cum. She feels me getting closer, so she backs off, she doesn't want to rush the finish, she wants this to be the best I've ever had...

She pauses sucking again, & starts to jerk me off, & to get even deeper into my head, & she says, with a russian accent (she's not russian by the way):

Her: "Do you hire sluts like me often?"
Confused at first, I quickly realized the fantasy role playing she was starting, I respond: "No, you're my first baby"
Her: "Don't call me baby"
Me: "What's your name then?"
Her: "I'm Svetlana,the best dicksucking whore there is"
Me: "That's why I hired you, Slut."
Her: "Mmm, I love your dick"
Me: "MMMMmmmmm"
Her: "Your dick is so huge."
Me: "Oh really?"
Her: "I'm gonna tell all my slut friends about you"
Me: "Why is that?"
Her: "They'll all be jealous that I got to suck a dick this big."
Me: "MmmmmMMMm yes"
Her: "They'll all want to suck your dick too"
Me: "Oh FFFFUck"

She is now ready for me to cum, so she plants her mouth deep on to my cock again, sucking, stroking, twisting her grip as she pushes forward, this time I can tell she is done building me up, & is ready to push me over the edge.

Every single second became a fight for me to not to shoot my load, but I knew it was coming. My balls heaved, as she gently massaged them, she sucked me, slurping, making slapping noises from the saliva & the speed she was moving up & down on my cock. She doesn't lose speed, & she is desperately giving me the full force that her mouth can give, sucking harder & harder, faster & faster, tongue swirling, hands stroking, moaning, & salivating.

I felt dizzy, & I felt pain for one brief moment as it seemed like every fluid in my body was all being pulled & strained rushing to my dick, that brief moment passed & I felt my legs uncontrollably contracting, then extending, my hands stretched across the bed as I grabbed the sheets off the mattress clutching anything I could grab on to, my head tossed & turned so far to one side that although I was
on my back, I was face deep, & now biting my pillow in my mouth.

It felt like as she sucked my cock, she was also grabbing the attention of every pleasure receptor in my body to focus & build up into my approaching orgasm.

I expected her to pull her mouth off of me & stroke me off as she normally did, & as I felt my climax approaching I snapped my head back up facing her, I knew she was going to take me in her mouth, she
wanted it all, she wanted to swallow my cum for the first time, & she was ready for it... & as my fingers clenched, & my toes curled, I felt tingles coming from the outside of my extremities in, as my arms & legs convulsed, into my belly, up my thighs & then for one brief moment, everything stopped, like a silent moment in time in slow motion I felt like my body had risen up into the air, & all of a sudden, I felt like I was thrown back down on to the bed with a thrust as my climax hit me like a ton of bricks. I groaned & yelled loud enough to wake the entire neighborhood as my pelvis began to convulse, my hips bucking like a bronco I felt the power of my orgasm erupt through my penis. I was rocking and thrusting, I have no idea how she kept her mouth on my. My dick was as hard as steel, I could feel the pressure of how hard my dick was competing with the copious thick streams of cum that were rushing up my urethra & into the void of her hungry mouth. I felt like someone was beating me with a pleasure bat, BAM........BAM......BAM.......BAM.... my body shaking as each spurt of my hot cum fired out from my cock...BAM.......BAM....down her throat, into her mouth, filling her from the inside, I was struck...BAM......BAM.... by load, after load, after load, of my cum pulsating out of me... BAM…My sweet girlfriend tried to accept my cum, & started gagging, choking on her first mouthful of cum, but her lips were wrapped tightly around the head of my releasing cock, she continued to pump her hand, stroking me... BAM....... as each load of cum rose through the length of my cock & into her mouth.... I felt her throat massage me...BAM.... as she tried to keep swallowing my steamy cum, the swallowing was like she was jerking me off from inside her throat.....BAM.... as I felt the tension that had stiffened my entire body begin to slowly subside, I the feeling of intense relaxation, like receiving a morphine drip extended through my body from my core, outward to every extremity....... BAM.. She still had her mouth on my cock, pumping out every last drop as the eruptions of my massive orgasm began to diminish..... She kept her mouth on my dick as the cum poured out of the corners of her mouth, & down my shaft, & she saw my heart beating out of my chest, I placed my hand on my beating heart as she placed her hand on mine, intertwining our fingers as she slowly licked up every drop of my orgasm...

She climbed up on top of me, & kissed me, I was so turned on by the taste of her kiss, a mix of her saliva & my orgasm, the smell that filled the room of sweat & my cum was intoxicating. I had never experienced an orgasm that powerful in my life. I didn't even know that a feeling like that was possible. I could feel her naked breasts pressed up against my chest as I whispered in her ear "thank you... thank you..." & drifted off to sleep.

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The Teen Size Queen Penis Size Test...

I just took The Teen Size Queen Penis Size Test for a little innocent fun and got the following results, not a bad fun way to spend 5 minutes when you're bored... The results were closer to the truth then I expected from a simple test. Yes, they did sell me an inch short, but still fun... If anyone else tries, let me know how accurate it is for you!




Your result for The Teen Size Queen penis size Test...

The Monster Meat

You scored 77 variable 1!

The Monster Meat - 7 1/2 to 8 Inches. Congratulations!! You have the Monster Meat! You have enough between your legs to satisfy a woman. You're the type of man most woman want to marry and the women you sleep with walk away satisfied after sex. You have enough cock to rock you womans world! Most woman only dream of a cock like yours, and never really get to experience sex with a real man like yourself. ***More Info*** To figure out how big you are (or how big your man is) take the exact number you scored on the test and drop a decimal between the two numbers. The first number is your inches and the second is how close you are to the next inch up. For example, a 48% would be 4.8 making you/him just over 4 and a half inches, or 72% would be 7.2 making you a tiny bit over 7 inches.

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How To Suck A Huge Cock

Dear LargeInLife,

Truth be told, I really don't have much of a story.  40 something, I myself have given some good head in the oh so long ago past... 14 years is too long for a girl to go without oral! I'm a spitter not a swallower, I'll take as much as I can in my mouth, maybe swallow once or twice just to keep it from dribbling down my chin, after that I'm reaching for the trash can...was told by a boyfriend once, that I was the best job he'd ever had - right up until I spit in the trash can...I'm not shy about it!

I finally found someone just looking for a sexual outlet.  And so glad i did! As to the girth of my new found lover, in his attempt to discourage me, he likened it to a red bull can but I refuse to be dissuaded!  Besides, I've been told that when i really want something in my mouth, I'll unhinge my jaw, like a snake to take it in!

Based on all I've shared, I'm sure you can understand my impatience during our first encounter, regardless of my body being ready for it all!  That pretty much sums it up, besides all the gushy girlie stuff & all the wonderful things he has had to say to me about my smile, friendliness, kissing abilities, hot body. My plan for our next meeting is to meet his friend face to face so to speak, maybe come away from the encounter with a pair of amazing DSL… if you've any great advice for fellatio on a long thick tool, I'm all ears!  Also, i plan to share your site with him, i really enjoyed the cunnilingus video last night, maybe he'll learn a thing or two to add to his own repertoire!

Thanks again for all the free practical advice, more women should be reading this, instead of crying like little pussies that they can't handle thier man...I'll take 9 over 6.5 every day of the week!

-a very happy girl

Wow... What a lucky guy, I applaude your willingness to learn and seek out advice, this man is certainly in for a treat - and after have him send you my way ;) - After receiving this email I decided to recruit the help of a friend of mine… She’s not your average girl, I'd describe her as the oraly-obsessed-big-dick-lover-slash-connoisseur-naughty-girl-next-door…

 I reached out to her and told her your story, and here is her advice, straight from the well endowed female sexpert herself, I present my extremely sexy friend… McKenzie

(My attempt at being an epic cartoonist... Truth be told this really does look like her)

I've always had an oral fixation. It pre-dates the moment my lips touched a cock for the first time, by far; It came in the form of straw chewing, nail-biting, sucking on my bottom lip..... but when my lips finally wrapped around a nice, thick cock I knew immediately that they had found their real purpose, to bring absolute pleasure to well-endowed men.

Many women hate this part of a sexual encounter and I've never understood why. So without going on a tangent, I just want to quickly address the advantages of being able to give great head. Ladies (& gents), men do love a submissive women but giving oral is the best of the both world! Essentially, you're in control of his pleasure and sexual experience... but you're submitting to what he ultimately wants. It's a weapon, pull it out of the holster and boom, he'll be blown away. If a man see's that you're excited to do this for him, I can almost guarantee that he will be one, shocked and two, far more willing to drop down on his knees and reciprocate.

So, you may be saying, "Great. I'm willing. I'm ready. Now, how do I go about doing this?" Good question. I've got a couple of pointers that should be helpful. There's no over-all formula for giving fantastic head to a big cock but in my own personal experience there's a couple of key things that all larger men enjoy. I'm no porn-star. And no, you can't google my name and find an instructional video for your viewing pleasure (my next venture maybe?) but I do know for a damn fact, that every large dick I've had the pleasure of blowing has confessed one of a few things, "I've never cum so fast!" or "That was the best head I've ever had." or my personal favorite confession after he had a mind-blowing orgasm, "I think you sucked me stupid.." Hopefully my advice can get these same reactions for you!

First off, kissing is very crucial to oral. What? Yes. Kissing. The moment I kiss a guy, really long and deep for the first time, I start to get a general idea of what he can or can't do with his tongue. You also get familiar with their mouth and they with yours... things like, does he have a long tongue? Is it wide? Is he forceful? Is he tender?.. run thru my mind.. and for a fact, it runs thru your male counterpart. So, once you're comfortable with each other, and you're past the initial first few kisses where you're feeling each others styles out... and you've found a comfortable rhythm with one another... start showing off what you can do girl. Pull away gingerly mid-kiss and take his bottom lip in your mouth, a nice seductive tug with your teeth on his bottom lip is very effective. Softly pull it into your mouth, and give it a nice suck. This shows confidence that you can take control and are willing to be playful with your mouth. While your kissing, one of my personal favorite things to do, is it take his tongue into your mouth and suck on it. I've felt responses from this alone.. a nice hard, cock growing up against my thigh or in my lap. I assure you, doing things like this gets his mind wandering.. "Where else would that soft sucking feel amazing?"

So now you've shown off (just a bit) and you've got him aroused, and thoroughly interested in what you have to offer. His imagination is running wild. He's primed and ready to go.

I know, if this is first time giving oral to a larger dick, you're nervous. What if I can't get my mouth around all of it? (and chances are you won't, this takes time, practice, and a couple willing dicks) What if my teeth hit him? What if I get tired? Don't show these emotions, not for anything. Hide those emotions underneath how fucking sexy you are. Do things that you're comfortable with doing in the beginning. If you don't want to say a word, don't. I think the best head is given when you're in a completely submissive position, i.e. on your knees and he's sitting or standing. This way you're comfortable and not hunched over and your neck/arm won't get tired because you can always grip his thighs or rest them in his lap. Alright, so you're in position, you've dropped down in between his legs and he's sitting in a chair or on the bed. That big hard cock is in front of you ready to be pleased. I can't stress how visual men are. Keep the damn lights on. I know, I know. A lot of women hate this. They don't want to be seen. Girl, grab your balls. Show him how sexy and SEXUAL you are. Show him you aren't scared to be confident in what you're doing, and that you want him to see every second of this phenomenal pleasure that he's got the privilege of getting. If this makes you extremely uncomfortable, have dim-lightning, maybe candles or a  soft lamp. I'd say this is probably the most important part.

Now to a few nitty, gritty technique tips:

If this is your first big dick, you NEED to get familiar with his dick. Is it long? Is it thick? Is it both? Is the head huge? Is the middle of the shaft bigger than the head of his cock? Look at it, feel it with your hand, use your tongue, feel its texture. So, you don't want to be obvious that you're trying to get a feel for him? Don't worry he won't care. It'll appear like you're just prepping him for the final presentation. Take your tongue, if you have a longue tongue, stick it out as far as you come, start from the base of his cock and lick up the whole length of it... if your tongue is wide (mine is) i like to show him that my tongue can cover a lot of the girth of his cock, maybe go slowly over the tip of his dick with it. You can show off with a long tongue, doing the same thing by flicking the head of his cock as you reach it... with the tip of your tongue. Get your hand wet, because a dry hand feels awful (just like on your clitoris), you can do this a couple of ways. If you want to be dirty and you're willing to be provocative, wad a big amount of spit into your mouth and spit it directly into your palm. Make it as obvious as you want, remember he's watching. If you're more timid, wad some spit up into your mouth and seductively lick your hand, coating it completely. Remember, you're getting familiar with his shape so that when it goes into your mouth, you know exactly what to expect. Slowly start to rub your wet hand over his shaft, make sure it's coated in your spit, this will help ease your mouth over it... a natural lube.

You're at the point now you're comfortable you know what you're working. You should be thinking, "Okay, the head of his dick is really big.. right away I'm going to have to take a lot." or maybe, "The middle of his cock is a lot thicker than the head of his penis, so I know that once i get mid way down, I may gag." You don't want to be surprised and you won't, because you're prepared.

Two things while giving oral to a bigger guy to remember:

1. If it's too much, it's too much, dial it down a notch. This isn't a porno. Most hung guys complain that females don't even -try- to give them head because it's too much of a "job" or that it lasts a few minutes and she's done or better yet, she doesn't like doing it, so how can I get off? If you do as much as you can do comfortably, he's going to love your effort and enthusiasm.

2. I cannot emphasize this enough.... -suck- his dick. Don't find yourself just running your mouth up and down his dick trying to fit as much of it in your throat as you can. This is all and fun and games in doses. Gagging feels great on his cock because your throat is tightening up on him BUT... how comfortable are you going to be doing this repeatedly? Not very... well, you're not there yet. Fit as much as you can in your mouth, and grip the rest of him with your hand, even if it's just to keep his dick steady in your lips. You should listen to his body and find that natural rhythm that you can do, and that he can get off to. Keep your mouth soaked in spit. I've never once met a guy who didn't love a sloppy blow job. Suck the shit out of his dick without over working the head of his cock. This is the most sensitive part on his cock and you don't want to over focus your energy. Most men don't enjoy this because it can get really tender, like when a guy is over vigorous with your clit. More so, you don't want him to cum right away... this is supposed to be an experience.. not a rush to orgasm.

Use your tongue as much as you can while still sucking. I like to keep my lips tight around him, sucking as hard as he likes or as soft as he likes, while still moving up and down. I've found that instead of going straight up and down... sort of rotating your mouth/neck in pattern with your hand.. is very, very well liked.  For instance, say you're going down, when you start to move back up on his shaft, turn your mouth to the left or right while you suck upwards. He's going to respond to everything you try with either no reaction or some sign that he likes it. If he seems to be shy himself and doesn't seem to be responding with much... ask him. Pop his dick out of your mouth and depending how aggressive you are sexually, you could ask:

"Do you like that?"  -  "Are you liking this?"  -  "I love sucking your cock."

or my personal favorite...

Just all together stop and wait for that puppy-dog look or look of shock....

"Why did you stop?... Please don't stop?"

Then clearly you know, you're getting the job done.

Well, the rest is in your hands (and mouths).

I hope this truly helps! I know it took me time to be comfortable with my sexuality and men to help me along the way and show me the ropes. You'll get there. Half of the battle is the willingness to learn.

After reading this, and thinking about McKenzie's amazing talents, I believe its only suitable to pay tribute to her by posting this.. saying thank you... and then stroking myself off voraciously to the thought of her going down on me ;)

Size Fluctuation

This is something I've thought about, and wanted to reflect on before and when going through some old photos I once took of myself I realized that this is a good opportunity to talk about erection size fluctuation.

Every guy knows that sometimes you get an erection, and "it's a good one" or maybe its not, and you feel let down, or maybe your partner feels let down, or worries that you're not aroused enough by them. I think this should be addressed simply, and I'm not going to get into too much science or stats like I sometimes do, and just speak off the cuff in my personal experience


The size of your erection varies every single time. Your penis size fluctuates constantly and it depends on many factors. You will never get the same measurement twice (scientifically speaking).

There are multiple factors that go into your erection size, such as: temperature of the room, state of your arousal, your stress level, your health level, circulation, mental state, air pressure (try getting a boner on a commercial airplane and you know what I mean) and the list goes on and on.

In my experience, sometimes I've had erections I wish I could photograph, and frame and mount to my wall, and sometimes I'm literally stunned and I say "really? that's it today?" (yes I'm totally putting myself out there) but guys, I'm here to tell you that this is normal. Not only normal, but something to be understanding of, and not worry about.

In an earlier post I gave the length of my penis as 8.1 inches, and later posted a photo where I'm holding a ruler and I'm over 8.5 inches. After going through some photos, I found a representation that proves in my opinion that my original 8.1 inch measurement was a safe base size to claim.

Here are some photos that represent my personal fluctuation in size. These photos were taken on different days.

As you can see, I fluctuated here by nearly an inch. That's a pretty big difference to be honest. And I'm certain (as one particular ex once told me) that I've hit nine inches more than once, and sometimes when I'm not 100% into it I'm probably seven inches, possibly less.

The penis is a spongy like object and the body is not a machine, it fluctuates as does anything in nature.